Day 24/25: No more glasses

I am excited for this experiment to be over in 5 days. The last 4 days I’ve been holed-up sick at home, with little energy nor motivation, and I feel like I’m making backward progress.

Mostly I’ve been working and playing on my laptop for 4 days, and my eyesight seems to have gotten worse when trying to focus on distant objects. The most useful focus exercises (and most frustrating) I have found to be going to a bookstore, grocery, or, today, going to a flea market and trying to find small items when you’re not even sure they exist. This is really trying on unfocused eyes and creates a tension headache within minutes.

If I were to continue (or re-do) this experiment, I would say that one should spend at least 15-30 minutes a day in such an environment to really exercise the eyes fully. It really sucks so it probably helps. And it probably should be woven into computer time usage on top of that, like focusing on distant objects for 1 minute for every 30 minutes on the computer, or something like that.

Will I dedicate myself to doing this over the next 5 days, for the sake of science?

Ug. I’ll try. My eye appointment is on Saturday and I’d love to tell my eye doctor my eyesight has improved because I am not wearing glasses/contacts anymore!

Still Looking

Trust me
I’m still looking for that man that can keep up with me
He’s gotta be unstoppable
Never bored
Resting in each other’s arms
Lightening up at just the right times
Appreciating what’s in front of him
Staring him in the soul
Teasing him with my fingertips
Beckoning the real man to show up
Come on out
Let’s play

Making over $100K/Year, Being Appreciated, Living Well

I had an interesting conversation with an immigrant yesterday about what is considered a good income in the U.S. This led me to do a little research that I have compiled here.

In some countries, a woman will straight-up ask you what your annual salary is. I kind of like this. Don’t get mad.

I’ve come to regard income as a measurement of how much people appreciate what you contribute to society. This is complicated, of course, by your own appreciation of yourself and your ability to LET people appreciate you.

Some good-hearted, seemingly simple-lived people probably make $100K/year in bartering that is never tracked by the census. For example, others provide them housing, meals, etc. in exchange for what they do for them. I know for a fact I received a lot more from people than my bank statements would attest to this past month, hence I FEEL wealthy!

This would be a more interesting statistic to me. Tracking how people are ACTUALLY appreciated. Anyway…

So I ventured that 100K+/year is still considered a very comfortable lifestyle to most Americans. And turns out I was pretty right on. According to 2009 US Census data, only 12.9% of men and 5% of women actually make $100K+/year. Most average about $45,000 and $35,000, respectively. So a woman shooting for the stars in a mate would be looking for someone above this average.

Here is a list of “traditional” jobs that pay over $100K/year: 100K+ Jobs

If you know me, you know how interested I am in in “traditional” jobs! I tend to see them as a gateway/university of sorts, a place to learn but not always a place to live, unless it is truly a job you would honestly do joyfully for free if suddenly you were not being paid.

But then, being a woman, I got interested in what other women are doing.

Here is some women-specific advice I found, not really interesting to me personally but great points to consider: 11 Top Tips on how Women can Earn More

Here is a list of Forbes 100 most powerful women. Someone noted with sadness how there were no women entrepreneurs in their 30’s included on this list.

I had recently heard a statistic that 80% of women that earn over $100K/year do it in direct sales/network marketing. I wasn’t able to find any proof of that information online. Success magazine (a direct sales magazine) was quoted as a source at one point but the exact article could not be sourced. However, it has been surveyed that somewhere from 81%-87% of people IN direct marketing ARE women. And my guess is that probably 1%-3% of those women become successful enough to earn 100K/year.

In 2006, the top 25% of female earners worked mostly in: education & health services, professional and business services, and financial activities (BLS statistics).

Of course, you could always pick a career that women don’t typically do, and then do it differently and better than a man would to get your $100K.

For $100K/year in retirement you’d need to save about $5 Million. OR HAVE $5 Million left to you! Don’t limit yourself, haha. For me, this would spit out about $100K/year until I turn 90. After that age I hope to have developed new unique talents that the world will appreciate!

Curious to see if anyone has other thoughts about this information…

Day 22/23: No more glasses

Day 22: Still doing all eye exercises. Did near/far at night before bed. Did not leave house today except a couple hours in morning to drive to drop off C at school and attend a meeting. Used low correction glasses.

Day 23: Wore real glasses at comedy improv. Felt way too sharp at first but eyes adjusted after 15 mins or so. I feel like I might have some slight improvement in vision coming, but probably less than one point. Will be very curious to get my eye exam results in about a week!

Post-Quake

You want to topple my skyscrapers
Because I blew my breath across your sores
I’m a dark empty void inside
So crawl on in
And sit with yourself for a while

Who’s the next clown
To show up for this circus?
I can’t believe I was silent for nine years
I have so many goddamned things to say
You gave me a bullhorn
That was really stupid

Now we can just paint the planet
Black and blue
Over all the red we already splashed
And beat the hell out of anyone
Who can’t see us for who we are

Yes, it feels good
To engage in the rage today
This is not the time to be civil
In the aftershocks

Day 20/21: No more glasses

Day 20: Wore low correction glasses out-and-about today, for most of the day.

Day 21: Eyes felt super blurry after yesterday’s glasses-wearing. Don’t know if eyes got lazy in one day or if it’s just the contrast that makes me feel twice as nearsighted.

I also notice that the eyes seem to water more when straining to focus far into the distance. This seems like a sign of progress, or at least change! Otherwise, not feeling super optimistic that 20/20 vision can be achieved in the next 9 days. Also, more time spent on laptop makes distance objects appear even more blurred. Extra laptop usage today.

If it’s worth considering in this experiment, I’m coming down with a throat infection today. I can feel it, a little raw.

Did 1×100 near-far focus on each eye. Left eye bothered a bit.

Staying Awake

Not too tired this evening to dream
To wake up while walking and
Shatter the dead illusion
That is this moment
And smile at a stranger
On the street
As if they bought a ticket for this party
And we’re all gonna have fun here
Together
Not falling dronely into step
With the rhythms of my past five years
What can I do tonight
To move in the direction
Of awesome?

Day 19: No more glasses

The more time I spend with the laptop it seems the less progress I feel I’m making in the “real world” improving my vision.

Wore low-correction glasses for a couple hours today. I can see “perfectly” well when I wear them, must be the left eye is overcompensating. This may explain the headache I have today above the left eye.

Today I noticed that riding my bike to work I simply didn’t “try” to see objects in the distance. I narrowed my world down to what I could see around me, and accepted everything else as blurry. I had to coach myself to try to focus on a faraway object.

I think my right eye is getting lazy. I will try to do more with it tomorrow to wear it out a bit. Only 10 days until my 30-day eye exam!