Being listened to is so close to being loved, most people do not notice the difference

Educated: Being able to listen to anyone talk about anything without losing your temper or self confidence

Six ears: listening, true/heart meaning, hidden meaning, temper looking for deeper meanings, ear for silence

I have often regretted my speech, but never my silence

Talk when people are receptive-no pushy advice
Stop when you've already said it
Stop when you need time to think
Stop when you forget what you were arguing about
Stop when it becomes vicious
Delay is the deadliest form of denial – don' talk instead of act – terminal inaction